When we are pregnant with our first born we are often told things like "it will be the happiest day of your life" "you will fall madly in love the moment you see your baby" "enjoy every moment." What if it's not that way and it's different than what you thought it would be? The new mothers I work with often express feelings of guilt that they don't love every moment of life with a newborn.
In this piece by Allison Tate, she talks about, how for her, some of these feelings took time to grow. Can you relate?